Friday, July 5, 2013
Interpret this text
I received a text that was very interesting. Here is how it goes:
Him: what are you doing this weekend?
Me: I havent decided yet.
Him: Let me know soon. Looking for a date. You are my first choice. If you are out, then I will flex.
Say what now?? Really?? Modern technology bothers me so much. I mean what happended to men calling you and asking you out on a date. Nope not in the 21st century. They just want to text you, and sometimes things get lost in translation. How do I interpret it. He wants me to make a fast decision about something with no explanation of what the event it. Then the statement "You are my first choice" ---whoaaaaaa WTH? Really Dude??? Let me just say no woman wants to hear that she is your first choice, as if you have a few more choices. Maybe he wanted me to know what he has other options on the horizon. This did not impress me at all.
Needless to say I declined because I didnt want to hold him up from flexing. He told me oh no I meant flex as in flexible...REALLY?? Whatever.
I would have been nice if he would have picked up the phone and ask me out on a date. Instead he texted me a unclear message that I was left to interpret myself.
Dating life is rough... :-)