So today I learned the art of flirting or that I have been flirting and didn't realize it. This revelation came as I was in Home Depot looking for materials to sand my table...you know the project I started working on a few months ago...lol Okay let me stay on track. I was asking the sales person a question about where to find the materials when this man walked by he looked familiar...im not quite sure...but I spoke and he spoke and then the sales person who recognized him asked him to help me....As he and I spoke and helped me find materials the strangest thing happen...he asked for my number...okay he asked for it just in case I needed his help sanding my table...the oldest trick...but yep I fell for it and gave him my number.....of course I want the help...I actually want him to do all the work...hahahahah...
He called me about 1 hour later (interesting). He wanted to confirm something...he asked me "You were flirting with me right"...I was shocked and appalled!!! hahaha...okay seriously though, I didn't have a clue what he was talking about. He said, he reads magazine and that I did 3 of the 4 ways you can tell someone if flirting...so he named them:
- Making eye contact as we spoke, holding his attention (you are supposed to do that)
- laughed at everything he said...(but it was funny :-))
- Smiled ( I love to smile!!! lol)
The only one i didn't do was:
- Touch him when I speak...like boy you so funny!!! and lightly pat him on the arm...lol
None of my excuses worked he said he wanted to make sure I wanted him to call...I guess so after all my flirting...but then I got to thinking .....that explains a lot. See when my girls and I used to go out...I would have that don't want to be bothered look on my face...you know that look that says fu#@ off!!! I used to wonder why nobody tired to pick me up...well my girls broke it down...and said there is nothing wrong with smiling and making conversation even if you don't want to date them...it softens you up a little bit...you know they cant do nothing with my mouth!!! lol
So for the past few years I have lighten up and guess what everyone Tom, Dick and Harry approach me...too much!!! So I know now why. As I go forth...I will pay close attention to how I interact with guys...
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